Little annoyances
We are both getting on each other's nerves. Both getting bothered by the little things that we both do. I was asked to write down what I wanted from the grocery store today. She got a little annoyed when I asked about getting some food that I could eat at work & that I wanted a few cans of mushrooms. She then clarified that she wanted to know what I wanted for evening meals at home. When I got home from work, found that she really didn't buy anything I had wrote down! She asked what I wanted from the store but wasn't willing to get any of them? I think she got 2 items I had listed; grape juice & chicken breasts. I'm willing to bet, if I use a couple of the chicken breasts for what I want to make; she'll get mad at me.
She said that she's been getting annoyed that I tend to make smart-ass comments or are hard pressed to prove myself. She also looks like she's been annoyed when I don't do what she wants, when she wants. On Saturday, I was going to start raking, she told me I should load the wood onto the trailer. She looked annoyed when I didn't stop the raking & go load the wood; then she started loading the wood.
I sometimes wonder what I got myself into. It's starting to feel like another great big mess. What's life about if it isn't: one mess after another? She does what she wants to do (and it usually feels like) without consideration for others. She will only go out of her way for herself. I really don't think she's likely to go out of her way for me; like I have for her.
Only time will tell how we deal with the little annoyances.
